User blog comment:JoFanForever/Adios!/@comment-1874924-20111203062623

Well, if you ever change your mind, you know where to find us. I do have one question, though: do your really believe that you never got attention, compassion or warm welcomes here, or just not as often as you think you deserved? "Never" implies that you don't think you got these things from even one person here. I can't speak for the Chatango folks, who seem to be at the core of your grievances, but the wider wiki community seemed to be reasonably accepting of you.

I don't wish to sound mean, but I think there are two things you need to learn. First and foremost, you need to learn tact; for without tact, constructive criticism won't be seen as constructive. Second, you need to be able to take constructive criticism as well as dishing it out. From what I've seen, much of the conflict you've experienced here seems to stem from your inclination to take personally disagreement/criticism that isn't necessarily meant personally. Assume good intentions.

As for your "secret wiki", I did not see it and have only second-hand reports of its content; but I can tell you that the current profile setup that Wikia Central pushed on us (presumably to cross-promote the various wikia under its umbrella) means that "secret" wikis tend to lose their secrecy very quickly. Indeed, I have to wonder whether the term "secret wiki" isn't an oxymoron nowadays.