User blog:Goldenshane/Just... wow.

Okay, guys, I just heard that people have been trashtalking on chatango about TDIwriter and Lalainee. Guys, why? This is going to be a personal opinion, and I may get demoted for it, but this'll be worth it.

First of all, TDIwriter and Lalainee, those two I consider to be valuable friends. They're very nice and each are something most people aren't: opinionated. They aren't afraid to express their opinions and I like that about them. I admire them for that. I'm sorry if you got offended by their opinions, but yet that's why opinions are there. Everyone has different thoughts, not everyone is able to say them out loud in fear of rejection.

Now, another thing, talking behind another person's back is something that I know from experience to be very very VERY bad. You may think it's safe, but yet what you said WILL be brought to the light. Guys, gossiping is something that nearly tore this wiki apart a little over a year ago. I don't want to go through that again.

Also, if you do have a problem with someone, then just tell them in order to resolve the problem. Not only is it less embarrassing for them, but less embarrassing for you too. I don't mind it if someone comes to me and says (politely, I must add), "Hey, Shane, I really don't appreciate it how you are so-and-so." Something like that. I don't mind it if others do that too me. That's why BocaJ and Spenny are such great friends too me, as they're honest and I know I'm getting the real deal when they say something.

Last thing, talking behind someone's back and once it gets into the light, it gives you a very bad rep. The thing is, those relationships were strong before the event, but now, while we have resolved those relationships, they will never be as strong. Guys, things like that hurt.

I know this is probably something I'm taking WAY out of proportion, but I feel that this was necessary. Not just for TDIwriter and Lalainee's sake, but just for everyone's sake. This doesn't just affect those gossiped about, it affects those who gossip as well.

That is all.