User blog comment:JoFanForever/Adios!/@comment-4353921-20111203185042

Wow! I'm thinking you take everything too much to heart. In future, my only suggestion would be to take any criticisms in a more positive way. One of my teachers, who was criticizing my homework long ago, said that he wouldn't bother telling me about it if I didn't care about my work. He was only telling me what was wrong with my paper so I would know not to do it in the future. He said that there were some other students he could help, but realized that his criticisms did no good since they didn't take his advice, so he stopped trying to help them.

Whenever I feel offended, I usually let it slide, supposing that the other person meant no offense. If I'm worried that I offended someone, I usually talk to them (or leave a message on their talk page) and apologize if I offended them. Usually they're like, "What? When?" and we chuckle and continue with our lives and friendships. I try to mend bridges before they're broken, and I have pretty good relationships with almost everyone I've ever met.

Stay cool, bro, and try to assume that people are not out to get you. If you assume that everyone is out to get you, you'll always be an emotional ticking time bomb. I'll miss you. Have a wonderful life.